tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post8956390672280611240..comments2023-05-15T10:21:43.665+02:00Comments on face value: the happy lieAcaciahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03148234753192860981noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-44945549444015512792012-11-28T15:11:29.161+02:002012-11-28T15:11:29.161+02:00I don't know you, but I love you! :)I don't know you, but I love you! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15645751782021238421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-21080965265113512952011-03-02T13:26:35.937+02:002011-03-02T13:26:35.937+02:00who drew the painting?who drew the painting?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-91213889070749021922009-07-25T22:11:45.305+02:002009-07-25T22:11:45.305+02:00Well said. Are you happy though?Well said. Are you happy though?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-82952976388033710142009-07-14T10:18:44.919+02:002009-07-14T10:18:44.919+02:00I like your writing. It is always deep.I like your writing. It is always deep.Blessings Samuel Phumisanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-26171065621654604272009-07-10T01:24:26.668+02:002009-07-10T01:24:26.668+02:00with how people turn out to be nowadays, i stopped...with how people turn out to be nowadays, i stopped assuming that there is truth: they always affirm something for something. i don't even greet back sometimes, because i believe some of the greetings are lies. they don't mean to convey the message in them. try to end the friendship, and you will get what she really is. try to expose him truthfully, and you create an enermity. will hear comments like "...does not how to rock, ...does not know how to cook" but all along have been together and were envy of others.<br />i agree with you: to prolong something, we have to lie. thus what people want. but if the lie is found out, we are doomed.<br />nice piece, keep it up!ekarinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-7678287203403870682009-07-09T23:59:04.565+02:002009-07-09T23:59:04.565+02:00jess another gem. i love this one. rings tru to ma...jess another gem. i love this one. rings tru to many who may not or even ever realise xGeorgianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-66053144181794624922009-07-08T19:52:24.884+02:002009-07-08T19:52:24.884+02:00Nice piece Jess. As deep and inspiring as ever. Ho...Nice piece Jess. As deep and inspiring as ever. How do you sustain such prolificity? I need some tips!Z. Allan Ntatanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-52653559427823914842009-07-08T12:03:29.221+02:002009-07-08T12:03:29.221+02:00I like reading your articles but i cant help somet...I like reading your articles but i cant help sometimes wonder what goes on in that head of yours. <br /><br />what do you think you need to be happy? I think its unconditional love. to love someone and to be loved back. <br /><br />What do you think about this one??? I feel it cant be nothing.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01418299571001174327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-47225980253716025012009-07-08T09:43:51.409+02:002009-07-08T09:43:51.409+02:00Nice!Nice!Chiyembekezonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-80067405764768759142009-07-07T23:11:43.892+02:002009-07-07T23:11:43.892+02:00( i always wish you would postscript your writing ...( i always wish you would postscript your writing with "this didn't actually happen"/ "this really happened" / "this really happened, and i'm ok" )<br /><br />so whilst the boyfriend made YOU feel better, you related to him simply to sate your own insecurities, not as an individual. which i think is true. at the beginning of the relationship you're so bloody relieved/flattered to 'get' a boyfriend it takes a while to actually fall in love with the person. <br /><br />social pressure. <br /><br />after the naked article, the alone article and now this, i think you're feeling the pressure!abimackhttp://www.facebook.com/abimackriellnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-10063776569310783092009-07-07T16:55:28.296+02:002009-07-07T16:55:28.296+02:00Great bit of writing Acacia...
Very thought provo...Great bit of writing Acacia...<br /><br />Very thought provoking. <br /><br />Do i really need everything that I am expected to need?<br /><br />I didnt need your approval, or anyones approval, until i was made to feel like I need it. <br /><br />Then when i realised that I didnt have the approval, that until that point I hadnt needed, then, I felt that I needed it...<br /><br />When you gave the approval to me, it made me happy.<br /><br />"She said my dad made her happy"<br /><br />Ouch... <br /><br />"The truth will set you free..." OR, more realistically... "there is no truth, except human opinion"...T-Lesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-14739006494382765022009-07-07T13:40:35.416+02:002009-07-07T13:40:35.416+02:00none of this is true. false logic.
my conditionin...none of this is true. false logic.<br /><br />my conditioning lies to me about what i need to have to be happy... a boyfriend, a busy life... not true!<br />my conditioning lies to me about who i need to be to be happy... thin, curvy... not true!<br />i believe the lies, i meet the criteria and i am 'happy'.<br /><br />so when i say i love you, i mean: i love how you make me feel about myself, i need the lie you give me, i can't live without you!<br />and i'm so dependent on you, that i've stopped seeing who you actually are.<br />and i'm so busy maintaining the lie, that i've stopped being who i really am.<br /><br />what do you think you need to be happy? the truth is, you don't.Acaciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03148234753192860981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3705927924848906242.post-86120427551927425002009-07-07T08:28:42.617+02:002009-07-07T08:28:42.617+02:00Acacia! Acacia! Whatever it is you are smoking sho...Acacia! Acacia! Whatever it is you are smoking should be made legal! <br /><br />Nice one.<br /><br />Its not like there is a metaphysical coded message hidden in the text! But as it is, its a pleasure to read and makes me smile!Kobi Wannoreply@blogger.com